Hey, I'm Shelly Ray!


I created this course because it is what I wish I had when I was struggling to heal and move past my sexual trauma. I’ve always been passionate about helping people through sharing my own experiences and insights, and this course is truly a project straight from my heart to yours.

In 2020, I went through a 9 month Sex + Relationship Coach Training Program through the Somatica Institute, which had an emphasis on trauma and consent-informed care. I have coached other survivors through their healing journey with group and individual coaching, and am excited to bring this course to those who need it!

I can’t wait for you all to experience the transformation I have, and see what a difference it makes in your life. I'm here to help you find healing, empowerment, and support you in building a happier, healthier life. 

Introducing Surviving & Thriving!

Hear me talk about what to expect from this course, and why I created it.

It's time to let go of your trauma.

Give yourself the gift of healing.

You deserve to experience joy, clarity, and empowerment in all areas of your life including your romantic relationships, sex life, friendships, and your career. Our trauma holds us back in more ways, and in more areas of our life, than we even realize. It’s time to take a big step towards healing, and finally set yourself free. 


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  Course Introduction
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  Module 1: Self-Love
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  Module 2: Boundaries
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  Module 3: Shame
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  Module 4: Body Image
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  Module 5: Sex + Intimacy
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