My goal is to help people find healing and empowerment, and feel less alone.

I specialize in helping fellow sexual assault survivors live happier and healthier lives.

Check out my course and membership program to learn key skills to break free from the patterns and beliefs that are keeping you from living your best life and healing from sexual assault.

Hi, I’m Shelly Ray


I'm a 29-year-old social media content creator and educator, and trained sex + relationship coach. I enjoy helping people who have been through similar situations, by talking openly about the things I’ve been through and still struggle with today.

When I started opening up about my sexual assault experiences on social media, I realized there was a huge area of opportunity to help people grow and find healing after being sexually assaulted. Trauma impacts every area of our life from our romantic relationships to our mental health, and I realized I wanted to guide people through their healing journey.

I completed the Core Training program for Sex + Relationship Coaching through the Somatica Institute in 2020, and have dedicated myself to helping survivors work through all areas of healing, especially their intimate lives.

You can learn more about me and follow my journey on Instagram and TikTok!